Planning Your Dream Multi-Day Elopement Adventure

I get it—you don’t want your wedding day to feel like a blur of traditions that don’t even mean anything to you. You’re not the kind of couple who wants a rushed 30-minute ceremony followed by awkward small talk with your parents’ coworkers. (Blah.) You want something real. Something that lets you slow down, soak it in, and create an experience that feels like the two of you—not a wedding factory.

That’s where the magic of a multi-day elopement comes in.

If you’ve never heard of one before, don’t worry—I’ve got you. This post breaks down what a multi-day elopement is, why it might be perfect for you, how to plan one (without losing your mind), and how I help make it easy, breezy, and fun. Let’s do this.

Thinking, “This sounds exactly like us”?

Let’s turn that dreamy multi-day elopement idea in your head into a real, joy-filled adventure—no stress, no timelines from hell, just a damn good time with your favorite person.

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What Even Is a Multi-Day Elopement?

A multi-day elopement is exactly what it sounds like—your elopement experience stretched over two or more days. It gives you space. Breathing room. The chance to actually be present instead of shuffling from one photo op to the next.

It’s not about creating more “stuff” to do—it’s about allowing more space for moments to unfold. Time to sit by a fire and talk about what the future holds. Time to watch the sunrise with coffee in hand, wrapped in a blanket with your favorite person. Time to get dirt on your boots, wind in your hair, and joy in your chest because you’re really doing this your way.

Think:

Day one: a peaceful sunrise hike to say your vows just the two of you
Day two: a casual breakfast, a few hours exploring, and dinner with your closest people

Or maybe:

Day one: a beachside adventure, portraits in golden light
Day two: vow exchange in the mountains at sunrise, followed by canoeing, a brewery stop, and stargazing

Whatever feels most like you, we’ll make it happen!

**Why a Multi-Day Elopement Might Be Exactly What You Need**

Multi-day elopements are basically the VIP version of the elopement world. But not in a flashy, over-the-top way—more like the quiet luxury of time, intention, and breathing room.

1. Less Stress, More Chill

When we give your elopement the gift of space, everything feels lighter. There’s no pressure to get it all done in one whirlwind of a day. You get to take your time—pause when you want to, have snacks (critical), or even take a nap (truly encouraged). We’re building in room for spontaneity and calm.

2. Way More Intentional

This isn’t about cramming in a to-do list. It’s about slowing down enough to really see each other. To explore a place that makes your hearts feel alive. To say your vows at a time that feels right—not because the schedule says so, but because the moment is yours.

3. You’re Already Traveling—Make It Worth It

If you’re choosing to elope in a place that makes your heart race—whether it’s a misty mountain ridge, a coastal cliff, or a red rock canyon—why rush it? You’ve taken the time to be somewhere breathtaking. A multi-day elopement gives you the opportunity to fully experience that place. To wake up in it. Move slowly through it. Let it soak in.

**4. Time for Family and Privacy**

Here’s the thing: you can have both. A multi-day structure lets you carve out a day just for the two of you (vows at sunrise, anyone?), and a separate day to include the people who matter most. You don’t have to choose between connection and solitude—you get the space for both to exist meaningfully.

How to Structure a Multi-Day Elopement (Without a Spreadsheet Meltdown)

The beauty of a multi-day elopement is that there are no rules. It’s about how you want to spend your time. Want a sunrise vow exchange followed by a midday nap and a sunset picnic? Want to explore tidepools one day and hike to a fire lookout the next? Cool. Let’s do it.

Here are a few structures to spark some ideas:

Option A: Two-Day Adventure Elopement

Day 1: Start with a sunrise hike—just the two of you. Read your vows while the world wakes up around you. Afterward, let’s take portraits while the light is golden and magical. Then go rest, refuel, and chill.
Day 2: Sleep in, then meet a few of your favorite humans for brunch or a scenic dinner. This day is relaxed and full of connection.

Option B: Destination Elopement Vibes

Day 1: Arrive and settle in. Take some relaxed photos around your Airbnb or cabin. Maybe wander through the nearby trails or beaches. Just enjoy the feeling of being away.
Day 2: Ceremony day! We’ll head to your dream spot for vows, spend the day adventuring, and wrap it up with a quiet moment under the stars.

Option C: Elopement + Honeymoon Combo

Day 1: Ease in—watch the sunset, write in your journals, cuddle under the stars.
Day 2: Vows at sunrise, then head out for a full day of adventure—think horseback riding, glacier hiking, paddleboarding, whatever makes you feel alive.
Day 3+: You stay put or take off for the rest of your honeymoon, already riding the high of the best start to your marriage ever.

These aren’t checklists—they’re starting points. We’ll craft your timeline together, based on YOUR vision, energy, and the moments that matter most to YOU.

What to Pack for a Multi-Day Elopement

Don’t worry—I’ll help you with a full packing checklist in my 88-page elopement guide (yes, it’s a beast). But here’s a little peek at what most couples bring:

Your outfits (layers, layers, layers!)
Comfortable shoes or hiking boots
Vow books and pens
Rings (kind of important)
Water, snacks, electrolytes (stay fueled!)
Headlamps (for those early morning or post-sunset shots)
Personal items—maybe a Polaroid, a special gift, or something meaningful from home

Bring what matters to you. This isn’t a styled shoot—it’s your real, lived-in, messy, magical adventure.

How I Help Bring Your Multi-Day Elopement to Life

Here’s where I come in. I’m not just your photographer. I’m your adventure buddy, timeline wizard, logistics helper, location scout, and your low-key hype woman who will cry behind the camera while you read your vows.

Custom location scouting: I spend serious time finding those hidden gems—places that are beautiful and meaningful.
Permit & logistics help: You don’t have to deal with the red tape or stress about where you can legally say “I do.” I’ve got you and will walk you through the entire process after I research what paperwork is necessary.
Personalized timelines: We’ll build a flexible plan that lets the moments breathe, while still making sure we catch the good light.
Activity suggestions: I’ll help you brainstorm activity ideas that match your vibe—kayaking, hiking, stargazing, hot springs… whatever calls to you.
Emotional support: Planning something this personal can bring all the feels. I’ll be in your corner the whole way.

I eloped too, so I truly get it. The nerves, the excitement, the what-the-heck-do-we-do-first feeling. That’s why I pour my heart into helping you create something that feels like you—not what anyone else expects. Hell, my husband and I had donuts and beer instead of cake and champagne, because that’s who we are.

Final Tips to Make It Unforgettable

Don’t overschedule. This isn’t a conference. It’s a celebration of your love. Leave time to pause, snack, and just soak it in.
Stay open to the magic. Some of the best moments are the unplanned ones—the deer that wanders by, the way the light hits your partner’s face, the breath you didn’t know you needed.
Make space for your relationship. This isn’t just a photo op—it’s the beginning of your next chapter. Let it be tender, playful, weird, wild—whatever the two of you are.