How to Include Your Dog At Your Wedding | Tips For a Dog-Friendly Elopement
Hey there fellow animal lovers! For many couples, their dog is more than just a pet – it’s a beloved member of the family. So if you’re even thinking about eloping with your pupper, read on my friends. I’ll help you find the perfect way to include your precious fur baby at your elopement. After all, your dog has been by your side through thick and thin, what better way to celebrate your love than by having them there on one of the most important days of your life?
This is an absolute must-read if you wanna make sure your pup is part of all the fun! We’re talking everything from finding the perfect dog-friendly location (hello national parks and beaches!) to getting your little fluffernutter all dolled up for the big day!
Including your dog in your elopement can bring so much fun to the occasion, creating cherished memories that you’ll treasure forever. Can you just imagine the photos already?! However, it’s important to plan ahead and consider the logistics to ensure that your pup’s presence enhances the experience rather than detracting from it. Your elopement should be as stress-free as possible, for both you and your little fur baby!
Considerations Before Deciding
Before you start planning your elopement with your dog, it’s important to consider a few important factors. First and foremost, think about your pup’s personality and how they handle new environments and crowds. What sort of impact will this have on the type of location that you have in mind for your elopement? While some dogs thrive in social settings, others may feel overwhelmed and anxious. If you think having your dog at your elopement may be too much for them to handle, don’t worry! Keep reading for other ways to make sure they’re included.
Choosing A Dog Friendly Elopement Location
OK, so first thing’s first. You’ve gotta pick a spot that’s breathtakingly beautiful and 100% down with having your dog there too. Also, think about the travel getting there. Would your dog do well with flying, or do you need to pick a location that you can road trip to? Here are some location ideas:
National and State Parks
Many national and state parks allow dogs on their premises, making them an excellent choice for an outdoor elopement. However, it’s crucial to research the specific park’s regulations regarding pets, as some may have restrictions on where dogs are permitted or require them to be on a leash at all times. The last thing you want is Ranger Rick coming for you on your wedding day!
National Forests and Bureau of Land Management (BLM) lands are often dog friendly as well. Plus, as a bonus, these areas may also be less crowded than the parks! Read more about specific dog-friendly national parks.
Beaches and Coastal Areas
If you’re dreaming of exchanging vows with the sound of crashing waves in the background, a beach elopement could be the perfect fit. Many coastal areas are dog-friendly, but be sure to check for any restrictions or permits required for bringing your pup along.
Outdoor Adventures
If you and your partner are outdoor enthusiasts, why not plan an adventurous elopement that incorporates your dog? Hiking trails, camping sites, or even a scenic overlook can make for a unique and memorable experience, with your pup by your side every step of the way. Wouldn’t Fluffy look adorable with their own little backpack?
Private Venues, Estates, and AirBnBs
Elopements don’t have to be on a mountaintop or even include hiking. For a more intimate and controlled setting, consider renting a private venue or estate that welcomes dogs. This option can provide a beautiful backdrop while ensuring that your furry friend is comfortable and safe throughout the celebration. Make sure to do your due diligence and check with the owner of the venue or AirBnB first.
Preparing Your Dog for the Big Day
Once you’ve secured the perfect location, it’s time to start preparing your furry friend for their role in your elopement. Here are some tips to ensure a smooth and stress-free experience:
Training and Socialization
If your dog is more of a loner and gets nervous around large groups of people or in unfamiliar environments, it’s essential to start training and socializing them well in advance. Gradually expose them to different scenarios to coax out their inner social butterfly. Reinforce positive behavior with lots of treats and praise.
Grooming and Accessories
Just like you’ll want to look your best on your elopement day, your pup deserves a little pampering too. Schedule a grooming appointment to ensure they’re looking fly AF. Then pick out the cutest accessories like a new collar, leash or bandana to really make them feel special!
Packing Essentials
Don’t forget to pack all the necessary supplies for your dog, including food, water, bowls, treats, waste bags, and any medications they may need. It’s also a good idea to bring a portable water bowl and a collapsible crate or bed for them to rest in during downtime.
Designate a Dog Handler
Have a plan in place for the big day. If you’re having guests at your elopement, designate a trusted friend or family member to be your dog’s handler for the day. Go over all care instructions with them in the days leading up to your wedding so that they’ll feel well equipped to be responsible for your furry best friend’s care and well-being throughout the day so that you don’t get overwhelmed. Provide them with all of the necessary supplies (mentioned above), to keep your dog happy and comfortable.
Incorporating Your Dog Into the Ceremony
Now that you’ve chosen the perfect location and prepared your pup for the big day, it’s time to think about how your dog will make their grand entrance and be involved in your wedding ceremony. Here are some cute ideas:
Flower Dog or Ring Bearer
If your dog is well-trained, you could have them serve as a flower dog or ring bearer. Attach a small basket or pouch to their collar and let them lead the way down the aisle, spreading petals or carrying your wedding rings.
Ceremony Attendant
For a more low-key role, your dog could simply be present during the ceremony, sitting or lying next to you as you exchange vows. This option allows them to be a part of the special moment without any added responsibilities. A quick search on Etsy will find you tons of adorable dog outfits to choose from if you’d like to dress them up for the day too!
Your Companion for Walking Down the Aisle
Walk down the aisle with your pooch by your side. This works great for areas that require dogs to remain on a leash at all times. You could really get creative decorating their leash for the occasion!
Have Your Dog Sign As Your Witness
In states that don’t require an official witness (Colorado, Kansas, Maine, Pennsylvania, just to name a few) for your wedding ceremony to be considered legal, you can have your dog “sign” as your witness! Bring an ink pad and help them place their mark on the dotted line!
Keeping Your Dog Comfortable and Safe
While having your dog present on your elopement day can be incredibly special, it’s important to prioritize their comfort and safety throughout the celebration. You don’t want them having a meltdown! Here are some tips to keep in mind:
Provide Shade and Water
Depending on the location and weather conditions, your dog may need access to shade and plenty of water to stay cool and hydrated. Consider setting up a shaded area with a water bowl and a comfortable place for them to rest.
Plan for Breaks
Dogs can become overwhelmed or overstimulated in new environments, so be sure to plan for regular breaks throughout the day. Have your dog handler take them for a few short walks away from all of the action. This will give your pup a chance to rest, recharge, and avoid any potential stress or anxiety.
Respect Their Limits
As much as you may want your dog to be a part of every moment, it’s important to respect their limits and not push them beyond their comfort zone. If they seem anxious or overwhelmed, it may be best to let them tap out for a bit. Have the designated dog handler take them to a quiet, safe space until they’ve had a chance to calm down.
Consider Hiring a Pet Sitter
If you really wanna go all out, you could even hire a legit pet sitter to be there just to take care of your dog’s every need.
Guest Interaction
If you’re eloping with friends and family, communicate with them beforehand about your dog’s presence and let them know any expectations that you have for their behavior. It’s completely ok to let them know how they can or can’t interact with your dog and let them know that they need to be respectful of any boundaries. Your day. Your dog. Your rules. PERIODT.
Capturing Unforgettable Memories
One of the most important aspects of including your dog in your elopement is capturing those precious moments on camera so that you can enjoy them fur-ever and ever! Here are some tips for ensuring you have beautiful, lasting memories of your pup’s involvement:
Hire a Pet-Friendly Photographer
When researching and hiring a photographer for your elopement (oh heyyyy!), be sure to inquire about their experience and comfort level with working around dogs. A pet-friendly photographer will know how to capture candid, natural shots of your pup while also ensuring their safety and comfort.
Plan for Specific Photo Ops
While candid shots are always cherished, it’s also a good idea to plan for specific photo opportunities with your dog. Make sure your photographer knows that you’re including your dog in your elopement before the big day. This way, when they create your wedding day timeline, they can allot the time needed to capture the photos you have in mind. This could include posed portraits, action shots during the ceremony or adventure portion of your elopement, or even a dedicated “puppy portrait” session.
Celebrating With Your Furry Family Member
Don’t forget to bring your dog’s favorite treats for throughout the day and maybe even get a special pupcake made for them so that they can eat cake and celebrate too!
Other Ways to Include Your Dog
If pups can’t be there, you can absolutely still include them during your elopement! Here’s a list of a few fun ways to do that:
Have the Best Elopement Ever
Including your dog in your elopement can be a truly magical and unforgettable experience. By carefully planning and considering your pup’s needs, you can create a celebration that not only honors your love for your partner but also the unconditional love and companionship that your furry friend brings to your life.
So, embrace the opportunity to have your canine companion by your side on this momentous occasion. Your dog is about to be the star of your elopement. Just try not to let them upstage you too much!
